Faking of orgasm is no longer a new stuff among ladies in the world today for different reasons which have been revealed by lots of them lamenting bitterly.And when reviewed greatly to some extent they seem to be right but before we go into the reasons behind faking this i want to chip this in.
We all know sex is a mutual connection between a man and the opposite sex to show their desires and quench the emotions for that moment by the little "act"
Sex is to be enjoyed by both partners but come to think of it some guys are just too unromantic.
You are in the mood and wish to have sex with your wife,thats fine but do you care to know her state of health? Do you know if she can handle it physically? Not just that Most men dont know how to put their partners in the mood,they are just not "fun" as some ladies tag them.
Some men will even go ahead and undress their partner without getting them wet or stimulating them to want to do "it" and they penetrate causing real pain for the lady and they hit away at it and spew their nonsense,common its unromantic.
Others dont even think of bathing before meeting the opposite sex which is totally wrong amd so on.Now would you blame them for faking orgasms?
Now lets see why they do that:
1. Women assume they’re being judged by the man, but rarely communicate this concern. Saddled with their beliefs that they are psychologically responsible for
orgasm, don’t need it to experience pleasure, and have to fake it to please their partners, it’s natural for women to assume that their partners are judging them
on how well they contribute to a positive outcome. Too embarrassed or unsure of themselves, women avoid letting their male partners know he’s “failed.” Interestingly, the men their own focus groups reported
that communicating about the sexual experience was important to them, though only in committed (vs. casual)
relationships. Women may be surprised, then, to learn that the man they care about also cares about their sexual pleasure.
2. Women place a lot of value on their mans pleasure than theirs although ladies that did not go through orgasm does not mean she did not enjoy the sex but faking the orgasm gives the man a satisfaction that he has done a great job.
3. Women also fake orgasms when they are not commited or feel you are not commited enough they just feel like just do and go way,which is bad in a relationship because trust matters most.
4. Women fake orgasms in order not to hurt their partners pride and in order to keep the relationship going but as a man if you feel you are not doing your job accurately seek for help on time because she is just faking for the main time and ones she meets someone who can satisfy her,she wont look back
5. Most times the man wants it even when the wife is weak and tired,they stay limp but dont want to kill your desire and they succumb and you are at it hitting away,enjoying every bit of what she is'nt enjoying one bit and its that moment that you want to stay your longest so that you can satisfy her better and then she moaned as if she came and you are happy you did a good job but she knows what really happened.Can u blame her?
6. Lastly taking of drugs that will help you to stay longer before coming do piss women off.It has gone way beyond satisfaction.instead of that do exercise and eat fruits that helps your genital organs to function well for maximum effect.
As a lady you are not to be blamed trully but you'll end up regretting your actions because sooner rather than later,he will find out you have been deceiving him,he will feel bad and try to move on without you looking for someone that wiil be real to him.
Why not get talking with your partner and arrest the situation then you live a happily ever after life.
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